Several times now I’ve seen an illustration on my news feed of a man who is walking barefoot across the sharp blade of a knife to get to the woman standing peacefully on the handle. The caption tells you to appreciate a man’s effort since you have no idea what he went through just to keep you happy.
That, my friends, is not a good relationship. It’s not healthy for the man and it’s not healthy for the woman.
Quite frankly, no person in the relationship should be expected to endure suffering alone, nevermind just to keep his partner happy.